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Rediscovering Domesticity: How to Bring Out the Mama Bear

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

How to Bring Out the Mama Bear

I am angry.  Irate would be a better word for it.  Mama Bear is out in full force!  So, what brought Mama Bear out?  A short form letter from the lab at the hospital.

So, what was the letter about?  The letter was stating that Baby had 48-72 hours to get back in for blood work which was done at birth but needs to be repeated.  Oh, and no need to sign in at the front, just simply go to the lab.  Also, Baby's doctor has been made aware of the state's need of more blood work.

No mention of why.  No mention of what problem prompted this letter.  Thankfully, there was a phone number for the lab manager so we could get some answers.

Hubby called and learned that the blood work done at discharge - 6 dots of blood on a sheet of paper - was done incorrectly (too many drops of blood per circle on the paper) and was returned by the state.  The nurses in the nursery were not being careful when doing this test.  Baby wasn't the on;y one.  When I took Baby back today, the lab manager pulled his paper out from a 3 inch stack of babies that need to be re-stuck due to nurse error.

I understand a mistake here and there.  A mistake of this magnitude - well, I feel we AT LEAST deserve an apology from the nursery staff rather than the hospital lab who is just cleaning up this mess.  For me to get all worked up from a vague form letter, find someone to watch Buggy (thankfully Hubby was home), pack up Baby, drive to the hospital and fight for parking, wait 30 minutes in the lab, have Baby get stuck AGAIN - unnecessarily at that, expose both of us to even more hospital germs, and pack up and drive home, well, that's a big chunk of time, energy, and emotional strength gone.

I wasn't super happy with the nursery to begin with.   I made sure that Baby spent the least amount of time there as possible.  Right after I delivered, I nursed him - before he was bathed and weighed.  Well, after I sent him to be weighed, the lactation consultant came to my room.  Aparently, Baby's blood sugar was a little low so the nurses were about to give him formula without asking me or Hubby.  The LC was standing right there and knew I would not be happy.  She came to me and helped me express  some colostrum which was given to baby and which brought his blood sugar to where it needed to be.  She told me that the nursery routinely gives formula no matter the mom's wishes - it's just easier.  If it's not formula they give, it's sugar water.  After 2 of the vitals checks where all babies are kept in the nursery for 2 hours, Baby was sent back to me with a jar of sugar water.

So, I tend to be impulsive.  My gut reaction is to get on the phone and raise a big stink.  Am I overreacting?  What would you do in this situation?  I don't want to completely burn bridges.  We may not be done growing our family.  I love my doc and want to have her deliver any future children and this is the hospital where she delivers. 

What would you do?

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5 Comments:

Anonymous Deborah said...

You know what I did.... I went to another hospital. I understand it's their policy to have the babies in the nursery... and if there is some medical necessity, to do so, then so be it... However, I switched doctors AND hospitals so I can have baby with me in the room at all times. NO QUESTIONS ASKED. I can monitor what they are doing, why they are doing it, and ask questions. I do not let my 3 year old go with doctors, nurses, dentists, etc. without me - why would I send my newborn? When they needed to take my baby to the nursery (to see the ped., draw blood, circum, etc.) - I went with him. I got out of bed and walked with him. I was then able to ask questions and understand what was going on. The staff at "my hospital" is trained in labor and delivery as well as new born care. So the same women cared for me and my baby. It was fabulous. They all knew that I was going with my son if he was leaving my room. I don't think you're crazy for being upset. I would be right there with you.

June 8, 2010 at 4:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I went through a terrible time with the hospital I delivered Brianna at in Plattsburgh, NY. To this day I regret not checking myself out an hour after the delivery and going home. I could spend the next two hours writing about everything that went wrong. I would call and make a stink about it. Right now it is just a blood test but what if nursing error would have caused something drastic. You speaking up could save another baby from something worse. I have learned not to ever let people in the medical field walk all over me.... I have a voice and I use it now..... I am woman hear me roar when you mess with one of my cubs...LOL

June 9, 2010 at 11:15 AM  
Anonymous Erin said...

oops the above is from Erin R.

June 9, 2010 at 11:16 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

From what I understand, the maternity care is a hospital's largest moneymaker. By notifying the hospital of carelessness in this area, you would be helping them understand how to make the most profitable area of their business work better. Sugar water? how cheap and yesteryear! I would totally let them know that they've dropped the ball on many levels.

June 9, 2010 at 1:41 PM  
Blogger meeganjae said...

At the hospital where I work in Canada, the babies room in with the mother. We only take baby out for the 1st baby bath which is where we do our head to toe assessment, and for the PKU heel prick test when we also do the weight and measurements. Neither of these should take more than 30 minutes. The same nurses that deliver take care of the babes. We do not allow parents in the nursery, but.. we have a privacy window to keep strangers from seeing in, where we can remove the curtain and have parents watch what we are doing. We also promote nuring, and have no lactation consultants, we do our own teaching, we never supplement, unless it is the parents wish, or if necessary, if baby refuses to latch and suckle, we will ask the mom to pump, and use a feeding catheter to give to babe.

Furthermore, as a labor and delivery nurse, I would appreciate feedback if something was not to your satisfaction. We can not improve without feedback and constructive critiscism. Mama bears unite, you may growl but hold your bite! Remember, we are just doing our jobs. For the most part, we are also just following orders and prescriptions just written by the doctor!

June 15, 2010 at 1:06 PM  

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